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im 4
mommy let te cmputr on and me was wondrin wat is a ffair
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karma
i think affairs is thee worst thing! how could you do that to someone you love? karma will come right back at ya'll that are havin affairs aka cheating! get a divorce if you want to go be with someone else!
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dude nothing wrong
if your not getting everything out of your marriage maybe you should go look for some one who can guve it all to you. you might love your spouse but they are not giving you everytrhing that you are needing. couples who allow one "free" night usually are happier. it's the feeling of freedom
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Bible
Don't forget what The Bible says about you naughty retards. If you like to date alot of people, then don't get married or have a spouse.
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duh!
affairs are stupid!!
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The Hurt it causes your spouse
yes it may be fun for you because you have no guilt but look at the heart ache you have cause your love one and now you want to work on your marriage it's as hurt for you not to do it again and just as hard for that love one to trust you again and find there self esteem because you broke that dowm in that person you said you love.
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Me
I was born from an affair, and I do good for the world!
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shame on you
anyone who said it was good.. shame on you... marriage is a wonderful thing and should not be disrupted by an affair... You vowed to GOD and your souse that you would always be with them.. that is not very easy when you are with sum 1 else..... It is a great sin...
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Sex
Having an extramarital affair guarantees one thing-sex. Pure, gritty, sweaty sex with a willing enthusiastic partner. No commitments, no strings, no expectations. Sex with one goal: satisfaction.
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Breaking Your Word
By definition, marriage means that you stood in front of a judge, priest, pastor, or rabbi, and promised your spouse that you would have sex with him/her only, forsaking all others, 'til death do you part. So it got boring. So he/she is a nag/jerk. So you changed your mind. None of that matters: a promise is a promise. If you want out so you can chase greener pastures, then do it legally, openly, and honorably through the divorce courts. Sure, it's expensive; but what price do you put on your integrity?
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It Makes You Feel Good
Whether it's filling a sexual void, an emotional void, or both - having an affair makes you feel good. This complacency extends beyond the physical act itself. The memory of the last rendezvous and the anticipation of the next can be intoxicating.
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Sexually Transmitted Diseases
After a number of years in a monogamous relationship and as we get older the idea of "safe sex" deals more with pregnancy than with sexually transmitted diseases. Men have vasectomies and woman tubal ligations to permanently prevent pregnancy. We mistakenly assume that having unprotected sex in the course of an affair is "safe". Many people who have STD's are not even aware that they are infected and can unwittingly pass those infections onto you, and in turn you pass them onto your spouse.
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The Excitement of Being with Someone New
Perhaps you've only had one sexual partner or you've been monogamous for many years. The thrill of someone new is exhilarating. A new smell, new kiss, new touch, new taste. These new sensations can be euphoric.
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Affairs are Expensive
They old saying "you've got to pay to play" is all to true when it comes to having an affair. Hotel rooms, phone bills, gifts, dinners, long drives to safe locations all add up. Whether you choose to fund your tryst by cash or credit card, ultimately it all comes out of the same place-your bank account.
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Thrill of Having a Secret
The secret phone calls. The secret emails. The secret meetings. Your own secret world. A world that does not involve responsibilities, expectations, mortgages, bills, appointments, children, housekeeping, or rules. You know that what you're doing is wrong, but it feels so right. It's your secret, and it's exciting.
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The Affair WILL End
Affairs are not enduring relationships. Either party can (and will) end the affair at any time for any reason. Imagine your lover leaving you for someone else. Imagine hurting your lover when you end the affair. Even under the best circumstances, the void in your life that was filled by the affair will be blatantly apparent.
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The Thrill of the Hunt
Flirting is FUN! That erotic dance of seduction played out between two mutually interested partners can be downright thrilling. An affair can see that seduction through to its pinnacle of ultimate sexual pleasure.
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Guilt
Personal feelings of guilt will be determined by many factors, but even people who are absolutely comfortable with having an affair will feel some degree of guilt. It's quite possible that these guilty feelings will not end with the affair.
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Sexual Exploration and Experimentation
If your partner is unwilling to try new things, an affair can break that bedroom boredom. With your lover, you can try new positions, experiment with fantasies and express you sexual desires without fear of judgment or rejection.
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Getting Caught
Getting caught is always a real, relenting, never ending possibility. A suspicious spouse with the slightest amount of technical savvy could easily acquire phone records, emails and credit card statements. This documentation of your affair could easily evolve into evidence in divorce court
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Posted by Miss_J