Well see the thing is its not anybodys choice to who has sex before marriage and who doesnt. Some people never get married does that mean they dont deserve sex? Honestly i dont think god would be too mad about people having sex. I mean thats was he made our parts for right? So this whole sex before marriage/go to hell stuff is dumb and it shouldnt matter to anyone else but that person.
sex is a gift from God by which a couple expresses a mutual gift of self and reciprocal love for each other, so you must not abuse it. You must not do sex for pleasure only or lust. You should do it at the right time, right place and with the right person. And that is when you’re already married and successful.
Aside from religions objections, there are risks such as STDs and pregnancy. Also, if you don't end up marrying the person you're sleeping with, sex wont be as big a surprise when you do get married. Having sex before marriage is sort of like opening a Christmas present before Christmas - it's exciting at first, but then Christmas isn't as special and there's no surprise. Just my 2 cents worth.
I personally don't have a problem with it!
I do it, but i only have had 1 boyfriend... tto do it with.. but other than that. it think it ok to an extent
Posted by portugese3
